Laugh And The Whole World Laughs With You
Who are your favorite people to hang out with, and what makes them your favorite? Chances are, it's their ability to keep a whole group of people laughing throughout the conversation. A good sense of humor goes a long way in any social situation, and that's why it's a great idea to learn how to be funny.
Breaking The Ice
First of all, humor helps break the ice. How many times have you been in an awkward situation where a group of people who don't know each other are studying the table cloth and nobody can think of anything to say?
As soon as somebody tells a tiny joke, the tension in the air disappears and now everybody can talk to each other. Humor helps people to relax. Laughter lightens up any social situation, and it is especially handy when breaking the ice.
To break the ice, try a joke that is universally funny. In other words, something everybody can understand, relate to, and find funny. Keep it light and easy. Also, try to be natural. If it seems forced, you'll be digging a hole of awkwardness that'll be even harder to get out of!
Making Friends
Humor helps to make friends. People who laugh together can become great companions. If you've got a common laugh you've shared with somebody, it will always be fun to remember together. There are no greater friends in the world than people who find the same things funny.
But, don't get the wrong idea. Being funny will not automatically get you friends, but it will help. Of course, you still have to be yourself, be outgoing, spend time with other people, go out, etc. But adding a little humor to your socializing will definitely help in making and keeping friends.
Personal Attraction
Being funny makes you more attractive. It may be shallow to think this way, but it's absolutely true. People are attracted to members of the opposite sex for a whole bunch of reasons, and humor ranks high. Everybody wants to spend time with someone who makes them laugh. Sometimes, a good sense of humor can make up for inadequacies in other areas, like physical qualities or the contents of one's wallet.
Again, forced humor used to pick-up girls won't get you anywhere. Neither will telling jokes that are so esoteric nobody gets them, or insulting people. As always, pay attention to the reaction to your humor. This is one of the most important parts of being funny. Figure out what makes them laugh, and give them lots and lots of it.
Staying Positive
Humor is a great way to stay on top of life's little troubles. Laughter keeps things positive. If you can learn to laugh in difficult situations, you can keep yourself calm and positive. Jokes are a great way to lighten up and stay positive.
Everybody loves to laugh, and that is why being funny is essential in every social situation. Whether you are spending a night out, making friends or trying to find someone special, laugh and keep things on the lighter side. They'll love you for it!
